Sunday, August 31, 2014

Just had to share!!!

This is the best description of my goal with quiet time!!!


The word "meditation" scared me at first. 
As one of my classmates put it last term...it was a "bit too hippie".
Andy does an amazing job using a juggling act to SHOW the craziness in our minds.
There has to be a better way...
September is an awesome month to learn!! Let's get started!!
Enjoy!!!

Thursday, August 28, 2014

soooo where are we heading???


For most, before beginning a journey, we must first chose a destination.
In the Journey to Wellness, we must define "Wellness".
Wellness is not just the absence of illness or the pursuit or perfect health.
It is a place of peace.
It is an acceptance of the things we can not control.
It is the place where we discover just how much we do control.

For me, assessing my current situation was an eye opening education...
This is a great assessment...
http://www.redlands.edu/docs/CSL/Assessing_Your_Wellness.pdf

You will be asked a series of questions and given a point value.
It covers the seven dimensions of wellness...
http://wellness.ucr.edu/seven_dimensions.html

It is just a scorecard in which you can begin your path to improvement.
In the coming weeks, I will explore each and offer steps to "raise your score" or as I like to put it..
Help you take steps to better health...

Thursday, August 21, 2014

A road well traveled but rarely enjoyed


This is the beginning...I know there are several post before this one, yet this is the beginning...
For some this sounds odd, for others it make complete sense...
Odd: How in this the beginning if it began many months ago...
Understood: Oooo a do-over, a correction, a new beginning...

However, both are incorrect!
Prior to today, this blog was guided by a lesson plan.
It was a home work assignment.
Today, it is completely mine.
It will be guided by my thoughts. feelings and ideas
as well as
your questions, suggestion and comments.

So let's get started.
This is a Journey to Wellness
It is a place of healing and guidance.
It is a launching pad for your research.
I will post places I trust and love.
I will recommend things I enjoy and use within my life and my practice.
In this process, I am working on my healing and bringing you along for the journey.



There are days that are rougher than other...
There are days that are smoother...
Together we can help each other...

Quick introduction for those new to the blog and me...
I am Sonya Arrington. I am a Wellness Coach in South Carolina.
I have traveled many of the same paths as my clients.
I was actually hired because of my "been there, done that" experience.
I am a mom to 3 adult children, currently grandma to 2 ,wife of 30+ years and senior in college working on a BS in Health and wellness.
I have a full plate. 
I know stress all too well. I battle weight, health and self-doubt.
 I am a real person.

Together, we will explore integral healing.
We will focus not only on the physical body but also the mind and spirit.
I will suggest many things including meditations.
 Again for some, this will seem odd, for others it is a daily practice.
I know for me, it was quite strange in the beginning.
Yet as I made them mine and made them personal, the pieces came together.
Do not be afraid to try something new...

To put it another way...


It is time for a change. My hope and prayer is that your change will start here!!

I plan to post weekly but have been known to post more often...
the best way to keep up with me is to follow the blog!!

Let's enjoy this journey to better health!!


Monday, August 18, 2014

As promised...Let's Move Manning got me moving!!!

It is funny how one step leads to another...
We had soooo much fun on Saturday, I met with the trainer
on Sunday for a repeat!!!
I am kicking off a Why Weight Walking team tonight
to help those wanting to begin but are unsure how or
those that have "fallen off the wagon"!!!
This is an awesome beginning to a healthier life!!!

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Week 10 - FINISH LINE OR STARTING POINT ???

As this school terms comes to an end, I have asked
 review my Creating Wellness class and evaluate my journey.

First, this class...I learned so many lessons 
but 
the one that stands out, is just how much I still have to learn!!
I am scheduled to graduate in 2015, however, I can assure you this will not be the end of my education.
This class has shown me just how interconnected my body is and the importance of 
focus not only on physical health but also spiritual and psychological.

When I first evaluated myself, I thought I was in a healthy state of well-being.
As I have journeyed to a better understanding of true health, 
I came to realize that yes, I was not sick
BUT 
There is SOOO much more to health!!

I am now packing my integral "black bag".
I am meditating daily to set the mood of the day as well as "clear" my vision.
I have a more positive outlook no matter the "storm".

I am pleased to say my meditations have proven successful!
Last week, I face one of my biggest fears 
....AND....
To update my "storm" from last week.
My mom did suffer TIAs and we are unclear as to how many or the lasting damage.
However, she is much better and stable.
She has been given clearance to return to her normal life
with just a few restrictions!!!

Now to my weakest area, my physical health.
During my first evaluation, I felt I was healthy because I was not sick. 
This class has taught me that there is much more to health that just the absence of illness.
I will kayak weekly!!!
I am also joining our town's running club...my first walk/run with a group 
in over five years...
is Saturday!!!!

As I stated last week I do plan to continue this blog.
I feel if give my a reason to focus on myself.
I am healing my spirit by spending time on me...
This then helps me help those around me.

I am sooo looking forward to our future topics...
I hope you will continue to share, comment, and post your thoughts and ideas...
HERE we go....



Friday, August 8, 2014

Final Project Week 9- Damage Prevention

This is my final project. The assignment is to be in APA format.
For those reading that are not in school will find this a little odd. APA requires writing in 3rd person.
3rd person is not friendly on a personal blog.
Please know this is my journey, my assessment and my goal setting.
The events of August 6 are still unclear and your prayers are requested.
Let me know if you see an typos!!! 
Enjoy and Learn!!

The integral healing map consists of five key principles (Dacher, 2006). Each is vital to healing. Healing is holistic, evolutionary, intentional, person-centered and dynamic (Dacher, 2006). As one navigates through the landscape of illness, disease or just life, it is easy to become confused and disoriented. Sometimes it is best to be still. In the stillness and quiet, a path may reveal itself. This path will include assessing the current situation, setting goal, creating a strategy, and committing to the process.
At first glance, all seems well on the surface, yet the heart is troubled. A cloudless sky can darken with a storm within minutes, so can a seemingly healthy person can become ill. Just as meteorologist categorizes hurricanes and tornadoes, one can assess the physical, spiritual and psychology health within him or herself. Without radar, a storm seems to hide from plain sight as an illness that appears to be sudden but truthfully has been brewing for some time(Schlitz, M., Amorok, T., & Micozzi, M, 2005).  To create “personal radar”, one should assess the current conditions. Physical well-being is more that the “lack of illness” (Dacher, 2006). It is a condition of well-being and health (Dacher, 2006). Spiritual health is not just connecting to the Savior. It is a listening and accepting the direction. Psychological well-being is not having all the answers (Dacher, 2006). It is finding peace in the knowledge one does have.
For Mrs. Sonya Arrington, the picture in her mind of her own well-being appeared much sunnier. On a scale of one to ten, ten being the beautiful clear skies, Sonya saw herself at a six physically, an eight spiritual and due to the health of those around her, she assessed her psychological health as a 4.8. She felt that her lack of control greatly affected her own mental health.  Looking at these with a new understanding leads one to reassess the overall calm that actually is a storm.
 While the storm is not within the control of those in the path, they do control their reaction. One can create a true peace in the face of the storm by practice meditations and exploring whole body awareness. After studying and practicing inner health practices, Sonya has a better picture of her past health as well as a new outlook on her mental health.
In a current assessment, Sonya is much stronger psychology scoring a solid eight. August 6, 2014, Sonya faced a “category 5 hurricane”. In preparation a weekend of fun with the grandson, Sonya scheduled a larger than normal day of clients. In the midst of seeing clients back-to-back, she received news of something not right with her 70-year-old mother who lives two and a half hours away. The lack of control in this situation and the “unknowns” could have led to a complete shutdown of both the mental and physical part of Sonya. Even in her crying out to her Savior could be different and not as it should be, yet Sonya took a fifteen-minute pause and used the subtle mind meditation to quiet her mind. This redirected her energies into a more productive direction. Currently, Sonya would assess her physical health at an eight, her spiritual health at a nine and her psychological health at an eight. Sonya is ready for the storms of life. The storm is still raging but Sonya is weathering differently.
In order to prepare for these storms, Sonya will need to “pack the hurricane box”. This box will include a stronger desire for peace and calm, a clearer picture of the situation, and a practiced use of the tools within her mental well being “black bag”. These tools and mental awareness do not come from desire; they will come from practice. Sonya will need to practice her meditations on a daily bases. In order to do this, she will rise fifteen minutes early to begin the day with a quiet time as well as end the day with a physical meditation of yoga, tai chi or Qi gong. The physical meditations will help with physical health and breathing. The breathing is vital to seeing a situation as it truly is not in a “what-if” perspective. For her spiritual health, Sonya will continue to seek His face in scripture and prayer. Sonya also plans to attend Newsprings Church at the campus at least twice a month in addition to her online services. These goals will need a commitment and accountability to help Sonya stay on track.
With this latest family health crisis, Sonya has the commitment level to make these goals become a reality. In order to maintain it after the crisis passes Sonya plans to continue her blog started in her Creating Wellness class. This blog helps her focus on the needs of herself and in sharing her experiences she feels it helps others. In this way, spending a few minutes on her mental health does not carry the guilt it once did. With a packed schedule and so many others to care for, Sonya had placed her health at the bottom of the list. She now sees that this does no one any good. She must make the time. Her goals and the caring for her health will open the doors to an overall better environment of healing for those she loves.
In the next six months, Sonya plans to lose the excess eight to ten pounds of stress weight she is carrying for better physical health. She sees a better spiritual health in reconnect with the church on a personal level. Psychologically, in six months, Sonya plans to see her glass as half full or half enjoyed. By seeing the positive and realist, the storms of life will lose their punch on her whole health.
In this way, her health will be holistic or whole and clean. It will be evolutionary as she evolves from the current somewhat positive yet stressful, to a calmer and clearer way of handling life’s stressors. It will be intentional and requires Sonya to practice daily. It is Sonya-centered and this is for her well-being as well as the well being of those she cares for and loves.  It will also be dynamic. She will share her experiences yet each will be different and special. This is integral health.




Reference
Dacher, E. (2006). Integral health: The path to human flourishing. Laguna Beach, CA: Basic Health Publications, Inc.
Schlitz, M., Amorok, T., & Micozzi. M. (2005). Consciousness and healing: Integral approaches to mind body medicine. St. Louis, MO: Elsevier Churchill Livingstone.

Sunday, August 3, 2014

As requested....

This is my preferred way to de-stress!! 
Zion and I are in the orange kayak...
My daughter is in the blue one. 

Saturday, August 2, 2014

Week 8 Taking our lessons to heart!!

I really had to laugh when I saw this week's assignment for our blog.
Oh boy does my God have a sense of humor!!
My pastor (Perry Nobel) says
"If its not good, God's not done...
Well, this week He has been hard at work...

I know everyone has them, we just don't talk about them...
or if we do talk about "those issues" no one really listens because 
we are soooo caught up in our own drama.
In the Arrington house, "those issues" were daily. 
Before this class...this would have been the way I survived...
Don't laugh, I KNOW you can relate!!!
Going back to work (even at an amazing job) after a wonderful vacation...
with a summer head cold from the grandson...
with an unhappy child at home is not fun.
even if the child is 22...
Then add hubby return to work is a six day stretch...
major pain and
                       sleep deprivation
 tight budget
rainy weather
You name it...it happened this week...
and then I read the assignment...
"Review the practices we have learned, and share how you would use them in your life"
OK..I got it...
First practice is BREATH...
Simply stop, find the quiet and breath!!
It is amazing how much clearer thing become when we allow our self time to just be still.
Because of the weather I was unable to get out on the kayak. 
So I did the next best thing, I climbed up on the porch swing and just sat. 
As I listened to the rain, I felt calmer. I could actually feel the stress leaving my body.
Breathing with this head cold was a challenge...
Sooo I went inside and did an herbal steam bath. 
I practiced my subtle mind meditation... really focusing on quieting my thoughts.
When I returned to the porch, I practiced the loving kindness meditation.
My son was the focus. He suffers from depression and has many of the same issues as adult children face in their journey to discover who they are and where they fit in. 
With my clearer mind and refocused attention...
I was able to listen with my heart.

Now this was a full afternoon of "me time".
I am not sure I can do this weekly but I am sure going to try.
My goal this week is to give myself at least 15 minutes each morning.
By doing this, I believe my day will run smoother and I know I will feel better!!